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They are working in top-tier positions, enjoying overseas vacations, and having their dream wedding while you are stuck in a place they were three years ago.You lament that success is not coming your way the way they got theirs.It can be the economic situation, the job market, workplace preferences, and society itself.Being obsessed and depressed with such things often gives you doubt about your own capabilities and will discourage you from taking positive action.Instead, you should focus on things you do have control of. If things are not working according to plan, you might need to change things.If it’s your job, then find another one that you love and where your efforts will be recognized.Most of the time, the so-called quarter life crisis is merely a state of mind which only needs a change of perspective for you to go on your way. The moment you start living on your own away from your parents’ advice and support, your freedom comes with a price.These include paying your own bills, working a job, having less time for fun, and having to make difficult decisions that will determine your life.
And there are things in life bigger than you that you cannot control.
People who claim to be in a quarter life crisis mostly complain how they are not becoming successful in the field they wanted.
Lots of auditions and you still can’t get that role, failed business ventures, and maybe lack of recognition in your art.
The only thing you need to do is to think of your crisis as a transition or a phase that you will overcome in the end.
[Read: How to stop being jealous of other people’s success] #3 Stop blaming things that you can’t control.