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When you say stuff like, “How do you not like anime? ” or “I actually have a Chinese tribal tattoo and started taking karate lessons,” what you’re telling me is that you want me to be a certain type of Asian girl that you can bond over East Asian culture with.While it’s admirable that you’re learning about different cultures than your own, but you might be appropriating Asian culture more than you think (and that’s a fine line you don’t want to cross).As Juliana Chang noted in , this roots back to histories of conquest, in which “the social and sexual services of the Oriental woman were understood as providing relief from the brutalities and traumas of war for the US militant.” When you jump to the conclusion that I exist only to provide you sexual relief, I can’t help but think you have old and simplistic views of Asian women. I’m not interested in helping you fulfill your problematic checklist.When you have minimal experiences interacting with a specific demographic, it’s easy to believe stereotypes and problematic representations perpetuated in media.I was also born and raised in Canada, so it’s not necessary for you to saying anything to me other than “hi,” “hello,” or “hey.”You also shouldn’t assume my ethnicity by the off chance you’re correct.As a rule of thumb: if you don’t know, don’t guess. Contrary to what you might think, not all Asian people look the same., Xu explains that micro-aggression sounds a lot like cluelessness, and cluelessness sounds a lot like, “I’m white.No, I can’t confirm if Asian women have tight vaginas. Assume I would be a passive, submissive, and obedient partner.Here’s basic manners 101: never comment or inquire on an individual’s body unless they grant you permission to do. Unless we’re dating and I’ve explicitly expressed to you I enjoy being submissive in the relationship or bedroom, don’t automatically assume I will conform to these gender and race roles solely because I’m Asian.
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